illusionofjoy | A rainbow for diversity or a rainbow for hate? (Reply)

Three people recently told the Rainbow Warrior (remember him? He was stinking up the airwaves at WAIH) why people don't appreciate his company. They summed up that no one is interested in an individual who not only defines himself by his sexuality, but uses it to ignore the social graces. They furthermore went on to explain that it is only common sense to not hit on guys he knows to be hetero. So, what does he do with this wisdom?

At the next LGBTA meeting (according to a friend of mine who went), he tells the group in open forum what he was told. The LGBTA adviser replies with the following:

It's the fault of the guys you hit on for being uncomfortable because they're aren't open-minded enough to accept gays.
If you want to define yourself by your sexuality you should - no one should tell you who to be or how to act.
I'd like to find these guys who felt uncomfortable and give them a lesson on embracing the gay community and why they shouldn't be offended.

Is it just me or does this adviser seem to lack common sense. It's just stupid to hit on guys that one knows are heterosexuals - in fact, most women don't like random guys hitting on them...it's called sexual harassment. Why should the rules be any different for a gay guy? Here's a fact: they aren't; it's still sexual harassment. Also, let's face it, no one wants to hang around someone so one-dimensional as they define themselves solely by what they prefer to screw. Finally, I want this adviser to come find me - so I can give her a lesson on the social graces (and pull the "my best friend is gay" card, if I have to).

Why are people so fucking stupid? I'm so sick of this nonsense!